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Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies about Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be

3.98  ·  Rating details ·  47,321 ratings  ·  6,108 reviews
With wry wit and hard-earned wisdom, popular online personality and founder of founder Rachel Hollis helps readers break free from the lies keeping them from the joy-filled and exuberant life they are meant to have.

Founder of the lifestyle website and CEO of her own media company, Chic Media, Rachel Hollis has created an online fan base of h
ebook, 240 pages
Published February 6th 2018 by Thomas Nelson
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Tasha I'm in my 40's and thought it was the most RIDICULOUS book ever! If you are down with self absorbed, judgmental, obvious narcissist then it's for you
Sarah You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero is excellent. She's less religious and more spiritual, but the message is similarly empowering.

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Jun 22, 2018 rated it did not like it
This book is for privileged white women with no real problems but the ones they make up for themselves. I was told this book was “inspiring”. But let’s be real, it’s easy for a rich lady to tell me (or anyone) that I’m “in control of my own life”. Any woman with a husband who makes enough money that you find yourself on the red carpet can say that. I found this book to be very unrelatable and full of humble brags. It was like social media in book form.

Also, if I hear one more white woman call o
Rachel Hollis
Dec 28, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  (Review from the author)
Shelves: books-i-wrote
Because, if I don't think it's worth five stars, what hope is there??
Apr 19, 2018 rated it did not like it
I usually don't write long reviews but this book got me really fired up (and not in a good way).

I was intrigued by this book after I saw some chatter about it on a few book club blogs. Now, I think that if I knew more about Rachel Hollis (or had ever heard of her before picking up her book) I would have definitely passed on this volume - I am generally not a fan of "mommy-blogger" or "social media influencer" content. I also had no idea this was a "Christian" book until I got a few chapters in.
Jun 02, 2018 rated it did not like it
Ughhhh. I wanted to like this!

Things that irked me:

-The painfully tone-deaf, privileged, white, conservative, upper-class worldview (one of her personal “goals” that she uses to structure a chapter is literally buying a $1000 Louis Vuitton purse)
-Frequent mentions of how she’s REALLY good at X/the most organized/the hardest working/the most tenacious/ the biggest nerd you’ve EVER MET (dude, give it a rest)
-Near constant reminders of how fabulously successful she is (although I’d never heard of
Sadie Esplin
Apr 13, 2018 rated it did not like it
Some parts of this book spoke deeply to my soul, and others made me want to punch someone in the face. I struggled with every word she said about diet and body image—what was meant to be uplifting and inspiring was preached as scientific fact from someone with no medical/dietetic credentials. She had nothing to back up her claims, but she preached it like doctrine.

I also really really really struggled with the story of how she met her husband. I realize have no business being bothered by it, bu
Carrie Rogers
May 22, 2018 rated it did not like it
Girl, stop preaching at me
At the end of each chapter, Hollis tells us what worked for her...what helped her master something in her life. Wow. We’re the same age and I certainly feel like a constant work in progress. And she’s this wise, worldly woman who seems to think very highly of herself and her progress in life. I’d be sooooo annoyed if she were sitting around at a party and kept talked about “what worked for her,” like some wise old grandma reflecting on her youth. I would have connected
Dec 11, 2017 rated it it was amazing
5 stars!!!


Rachel Hollis's newest book Girl Wash Your Face is just the book I needed to read to start my new year. It's one of those books that made me think about my life, the things I do, and it was a highly entertaining read!

A few months ago, one of my facebook friends posted about this thing called 'The Last 90 Days'. I read up on it, and I was inspired to make changes to my life and not wait until the first of the year, but do it now. I started getting up earlier, drinking more water, goin
Jun 17, 2018 rated it did not like it
Shelves: 1-tbr-june18
Nope. Belittling people by saying you can pick yourself up by the boot straps and CHOOSE happiness is irresponsible and uneducated. It just isn’t that simple. Her approach to body image and dieting is downright scary. She seems very self centered and looking for her 15 minutes as opposed to ‘helping’ anyone let alone women. Throwing in a scripture here and there does not a Christian based book make. This should not be considered self help. I would not recommend this book to anyone. It’s uncomfor ...more
May 20, 2018 rated it did not like it
Ok, maybe I’m the wrong audience for this. Or maybe I shouldn’t have chosen the audiobook narrated by the author. But I just couldn’t finish this

Mostly, I found the author’s supposed revelations to be really obvious and unenlightening. “It’s important to have self-worth by dumping the guy who uses you as a booty call (but oh yeah I ended up marrying the guy).” “Hey girls, we should support each other instead of judging each other.” And on top of all that, her anecdotes were way too long and self
Ashlie Elizabeth
There were parts of this book that were highly motivating and not too coddling, which is always appreciated. One thing that was tough was a constant thread of diet culture and weight loss talk throughout the whole book. The chapter about weight itself was...not great. There is a line where the author says (paraphrased) "science shows you need to eat less and move more, the end!" Where a lot of the other chapters examined the nuance of different issues and talked about developing an internal mono ...more
Jul 19, 2018 rated it did not like it
Girl, just don’t read this book.

Bless your tiny little bunny heart if you can make it through this entire book… Like seriously, girl, how many times can you contradict yourself?

I had never heard of this women in my life, apparently, according to her, she has is an extremely successful entrepreneur. Immediately my perception of the author was that she read a few really good books about women how have ACTUALLY struggled and then put her Reese Witherspoon in legally blond spin on it, adding a few
Jul 17, 2018 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: audio, adult, nonfiction
(Get ready for some flames, folks.)
Are you an upper-class, skinny, Christian, white, mother? Well I've found the self-help book for you!!

If you're looking for a light dose of fat shaming (disguised as "the kick in the pants you may need, girl, to take control of your life!! Love ya!!"), it's in here. If you want someone who has lived through a close family suicide but remains highly shame-ridden about mental health issues and how to discuss them, please visit this book. (Because the challenge of
Abbie Miller
Jun 19, 2018 rated it did not like it
Shelves: audio, non-fiction
We’re being honest here, right? After all, that was the premise of the book. To be clear, I’m not in the target demographic for this title. (I’m over 40! Oh, the horror!) This was just another self-help book written by a self-proclaimed celebrity (ish) who wants to be recognized for changing all our lives. We should admit we’re imperfect, confess to wearing Spanx and give in to the demands of life and just show up at our kid’s school in (gasp!) our work clothes! The last third of the book she sp ...more
Jul 22, 2018 rated it did not like it
Read for book club. Not something I would EVER choose for myself. The fact that people like this, quirky bloggers who are experts in precisely nothing, get to write entire books about how to live is probably the strongest argument I can think of in support of shutting down the internet, full stop.

Also, as an adult woman named Rachel, I am personally offended by how many times she refers to herself in the third person as "Rach". Ew.
Multiple people told me to read this book, so I figured I'd give it a shot. I've never heard of Rachel Hollis before or anything about her.

I listened to this on audio, read by the author which was a treat. She goes through some lies that she used to believe about herself in hopes to help other women from falling into the same pitfalls. Most of this is pretty cliched, but sometimes it's a nice reminder to pick yourself up by the bootstraps and work hard for the life you want to live.

To be honest
Tara Lynn
Jun 06, 2018 rated it did not like it
I was anxious but cautious when starting this book, as I've heard a lot about it. My opinion is probably pretty unpopular, but I could hardly wait to be done with it.

It's pretty misleading to put this book in the "religious/Christian" book genre. Some of the most notable/cringey parts to me were, "I am my own hero. This is all me. Any achievements you've accomplished, those are all you. I wish someone had told me this, but I had to navigate through life and learn it on my own: Only YOU have the
This book isn't written for me, but that's not why I didn't like it.

The main reasons:
1. You cannot tell that story about how awful your husband treated you when you first started dating and then, later in the book, continuously mention how you were "best friends from the beginning." You were not. He was an asshole, and her revisionist history later in the book makes me question everything she said.

2. Hollis thinks the difference between her and the people who didn't make their dreams come true i

❝If we can identify the core of our struggles, while simultaneously understanding that we are truly in control of making changes, then we can utterly change our trajectory.❞

I've laughed, cried and contemplated. There are self-help books, and then there's 'Girl, Wash Your Face'!

Through lies she's told herself, Rachel Hollis takes her readers on a journey through her triumphs and losses, heartbreaking moments and celebrations.
❝Recognizing the lies we've come to accept about ourselves is the ke
Danielle Cumberland
Girl, shut your face.

This book is a winner in one sense - it takes top marks for the worst book in this genre that I have ever read. This book is epically bad. I understand false five-star reviews, but I chose this book partially because a FB friend of mine heartily urged everyone to read it and partially because I was honestly a bit drunk-browsing on Amazon and I impulsively downloaded it to Kindle.

I knew this book was bad before I got to Chapter 3, but felt compelled to hate-read (thank you,
Jan 18, 2018 rated it it was ok
I received an ARC from the publisher, in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.

Honestly, the only reason I'm writing this review is that I agreed to after receiving an advanced copy from the publisher. I had never heard of Rachel Hollis before being part of the advanced review team for this book, so I began to follow her on social media.

I read the book quickly and it is an easy read. Hollis begins each chapter with a lie she believed and then the chapter is about her own life e
Carlene Inspired
Two reads completed, several passages highlighted, and a whole new perspective on life and the pursuit of happiness. :)

Rachel Hollis has given us a new book! It's not fiction, it's not a cookbook, it's Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies about Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be. Part self help, part honest, heartbreaking non-fiction, Girl, Wash Your Face was the book I didn't know I needed. Broken into chapters by lie, yes as in the lies we believe in about ourselve
(Bern) Mom to 2 Posh Lil Divas
There were parts of this book that were motivating but nothing presented was new and it was all stuff we've seen or heard before. I definitely feel like it's marketed and better suited towards the 20 something demographic. Women who are really getting started with life, careers, etc.

I did find the information regarding her personal business interesting. Having been a blogger for awhile and knowing how hard it is to truly find success I was impressed with what Rachel Hollis has accomplished.

I'm not Rachel's target audience. Proof? I had never even heard of her before seeing this book pop up on hoopla even though she's labeled as a "lifestyle guru" and I'll be honest, had I known, I likely would have passed this one by. There are some good moments here and I can see why it appeals to a certain audience even if, for me, it was only okay. I don't agree with all of her advice - yes, we teach people how to treat us and staying in a relationship allows them to continue, but taking that r ...more
Holly Reinhardt
Jul 22, 2018 rated it did not like it
Could not finish this. Listened to audio book and had to stop halfway through. The author has no concept of her own privilege, and that many women reading this book don't have the same opportunities she has. I found it self-centered.
Mar 19, 2018 rated it it was ok
I started out listening to this book without any expectations. One of the mommy blogs I follow posted that she had read this book and loved it, so I decided to check it out.

It was painfully hard for me to finish listening to this book, but finishing something gives me a sense of accomplishment, so here I am.
It started out ok. She gives a little pep talk at the beginning and then starts each chapter out with a lie she believed and how she has worked through them. I found most of the lies to be
Havebooks Willread
Sep 18, 2018 rated it it was ok
Shelves: self-improvment
I know this book has been all the rage. In the interest of full disclosure, I had no intention of reading it because I saw a video promoting it and the video just shouted "HUMANISM." I am frustrated with the blend of humanism and christianity I see over and over, so I had a strong suspicion that I wouldn't like the book. However, I joined a book club (in an effort to become friends with bibliophiles as opposed to my usual MO of trying to make book lovers of my friends--you see the difference?), ...more
Apr 17, 2018 rated it did not like it
1 ⭐ because I could not/did not finish this one.

I went into this book with excitement and an open mind realizing that many parts would not be for me as I am not Christian and therefore not the base that Rachel Hollis is writing for. This book was for a book club I’m part of and was ready for something out of my typical genre.

This book was not for me. The chapter on her experiences with the foster care system felt very self-centered and self-focused rather than an opportunity for a person with p
I have such mixed feelings about Rachel Hollis. I love her when she’s on her insta stories being real and nerdy about being a mom, but her online brand/persona about being a mogul or being self-made just comes across really annoying to me. He book ran right along the same lines.

She spends a lot of time trying to be super motivational, but I feel like it comes across as bragging and insincere. Yes, she hustles and works hard, and she’s not humble about it at all.

A lot of less-than-5-stars review
Mar 08, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This book is truly AMAZING! I mean I loved every minute of it. I have told all my family and friends to read this book and now I am telling you, READ IT you won't regret it!
Jun 20, 2018 rated it did not like it
Shelves: abandoned
I didn’t finish the book. I stopped around chapter 12 when I asked myself why I was putting myself through this. I’ll leave it at that.
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Rachel Hollis is a bestselling author, TV personality, in-demand speaker, and founder and CEO of Chic Media, the foremost authority on premium digital content for women. Named one of Inc. Magazine’s "Top 30 Entrepreneurs Under 30,” Rachel uses her infectious energy to empower
“know this one great truth: you are in control of your own life. You get one and only one chance to live, and life is passing you by. Stop beating yourself up, and dang it, stop letting others do it too. Stop accepting less than you deserve. Stop buying things you can’t afford to impress people you don’t even really like. Stop eating your feelings instead of working through them. Stop buying your kids’ love with food, or toys, or friendship because it’s easier than parenting. Stop abusing your body and your mind. Stop! Just get off the never-ending track.” 33 likes
“You, and only you, are ultimately responsible for who you become and how happy you are.” 30 likes
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